Hitchhiking to Stuttgart and back again
(a very good place to start)
I always planned to do some traveling in Europe this June. Two chief plans were considered, viz. making a bike trip around the tabletop lands of The Netherlands, or hitchhiking in Germany. The totally unpredictable Dutch weather, where it can be bright, sunny, and 25 °C on one day, and rainy, damp, and 12 °C the next made me set my sights on the German highways. I decided on making a trip to Stuttgart because one of my Carnival friends (Matthias Müller) lives there, and we really hit it off in Köln (Cologne). Whats more, Matthias was planning on making a trip to a small Bavarian town called Neumarkt, around 200 KM from Stuttgart in South-East Germany, where his girlfriend (Simone Kaag) lives with her parents and I was invited to stay with them. There was a festival called the Alstadtfest going on in Neumarkt over the weekend as well, so it seemed promising! The interesting part of all this is that I never considered the fact that my trip would coincide with the start of the football World Cup and the associated fever! That turned out to be an experience in itself.
Enough of context. Here we go!
The Hitchhiking Story
Eindhoven to Stuttgart
Once I decided to go to Stuttgart, and once I decided to hitchhike there, the nerves began to set in. It is all well and good to think in a vague sense that one will hitchhike someday. It is all well and good to hear stories about it. But when the push comes to shove, when the time comes to actually get out on the road and stick ones thumb out for the first time, I think nerves are inevitable. When you hitchhike there is no schedule, no plan, no route, nothing. The uncertainty of it all was daunting for me.
After doing some research on the internet (which has a wealth of information for hitchhikers), I decided to start my journey from the Dutch town Venlo, which is right on the border with Germany. I bought a wonderful road map of Germany which marked all the highways, all the exits, and all the gas stations along the highway as well. The gas stations are important, because they are the best place to switch rides. So armed and ready, I stepped out of my front door with a mixture of anxiety and excitement flowing through my veins.
I took a train to Venlo and reached the town at around 1300 on June 8. From the station I took a bus to the last stop which was around a kilometer from the on-ramp of the highway towards Germany. In most parts of Europe it is forbidden for pedestrians to walk on the highways themselves. There are no footpaths and it is too dangerous. So waiting by the on-ramps is the best option. From the bus stop, I started walking toward the on-ramp. The plan was to stand on the side of the road and hope for a ride at least to the first gas station on the highway. After a while, I reached the German border and as luck would have it, there was a gas station right there! That was really good, because I could just walk up to people and ask them for a ride, rather than standing on the side of the road with my thumb out in the air and with a board naming my destination. As I will describe later, the latter is much more inefficient.
Now came the time to actually approach people and ask them to give me a lift. I hesitated for around 10 minutes and then finally screwed up the courage to approach a group of students who were filling gas. Unfortunately, they were not going in my direction. I then considered approaching one of the numerous truck drivers, but never did do that. After a while, a Dutch guy pulled up in a mini-van and started to fill gas. I walked up to him, and told him that I wanted to go in the direction of Stuttgart, and asked whether he was headed in the same direction and could give me a ride. He was not headed to Stuttgart but my fantastic map told us that a part of his route coincided with the route to Stuttgart. He agreed to give me a ride, so off I went. My first ride! That was easy!
My driver was named Nicoh, and he was a trader of furniture. He was driving to the German city of Kaiserslautern to make a delivery there. He had a dog as his travel companion, and I shared the passenger seat with this dog. She was very friendly and after a while was sleeping comfortably on my lap. Nicoh was very sweet and offered me all manner of things to eat like chocolates, liquorice, etc. I was his first hitchhiker even though he has been driving in Europe for around 20 years!! I was surprised to hear that. I drove with him till just west of the city of Wiesbaden, 265 KM from Venlo. I got off at a gas station on the Autobahn, around 250 KM from Stuttgart. So far so good!
on the Autobahn (German for Highway).
When will my next ride be?
At the gas station, I took the opportunity to freshen up, drink some strong coffee to ensure that I stayed awake on my next ride. I think it is the rudest thing to fall asleep in the car when you are hitchhiking, not to mention that it is also a bit risky. I was at this station for an hour and a half. I approached many people including families, couples, traveling businessmen, truck drivers, you name it! The families and couples were unwilling to take a hitchhiker on board. None of the truck drivers were heading in my direction and I had trouble communicating with them as their English was virtually non-existent. The businessmen were the most willing to help and in the end I found one that was headed in my direction. He was a German guy named Hilmur, and was a manufacturer and seller of lampshades. His job included lots of driving around to take orders and make deliveries. Again, for all the driving he did, I was his first hitchhiker! Very queer since I thought it was popular in Germany!
He was heading home in the direction of Manheim, and so he could give me a ride for a while. I rode with him for around 120 KM to the next gas station. So far, so very good!
As with Nicoh, I had a nice conversation with Hilmur. Both were very curious about India, about what I was doing in Europe, what I thought of it, and how it compared with India. Both gave me an insight into the life of the middle-class Dutch and German people. They are just like any other people, really. The details and degrees may differ, the standards here may be higher than in India, but in the end, the complaints are the same, the attitudes are similar, the desires are identical. You may travel a thousand miles, but people are people, and essentially nothing much changes.
Anyway, I was waiting at the next gas station for an hour and had a really nice exchange with a German guy over there. He was a working for a (Polish? Can't remember now) logistics company. He gave me a broad smile the moment he noticed that I was a hitchhiker so I naturally approached him. It turned out that he was heading home, which was only 10 Km away, so he could not help me with a ride. But he tried to help me in other ways: he asked if I was hungry, thirsty, or wanted a smoke! Sometimes the kindness you find in complete strangers is heartwarming!
Eventually, I was taken on board by another businessman named Ramadan. He was headed toward Munich on a business meeting, and Stuttgart was right enroute. He was a German of Tunisian descent, and he worked in a company which dealt with Bharat Forge! His company sold parts to the big trucking companies of Europe: Man, Mercedes-Benz, Scania, etc. The parts were all purchased from Bharat Forge. He was all praise for the quality of Indian Engineering, he said that they produced high quality goods at very low cost. It is worth mentioning that the parts we are talking about are safety critical parts like the axles of the trucks etc.. He also told me that his wife LOVED Bollywood movies and that there are a number that are released with German subtitles, or even with German dubbing! It was really cool for me to hear all of this.
I got off at Stuttgart airport as that was only a small detour for him. I rode with him for around 115 KM. From there I took the S-Bahn (Stuttgart metro train) to the Hauptbanhof (central station). From the station I took a tram to Matthias's house. I reached his house at around 2245.
And that was my first hitchhiking journey. I could not ask for a better one. Only two and a half hours spent waiting, great rides, direct routes. Perfect!
Stuttgart to Eindhoven
I had planned to return to Eindhoven on Tuesday, June 13. So I set out in the morning from Matthias's house. After studying all the maps the night before, I deduced that it might be possible to walk upto a gas station on the Autobahn to the south-east of Stuttgart. I could take the S-Bahn to the general region of this gas station, and the rest of the way would be on foot. Since I had experience with hitchhiking from gas stations, and no experience with standing on the side of the road with my thumb out in the air, I decided to venture out and try to reach this gas station.
This turned out the be a big mistake. The maps I was using were not meant for pedestrians and hence were not detailed enough. I was relying on the sun for direction (in the morning it would be in the East, and I would use this information for orientation.) However, after a few delays, I wound up walking close to midday, when the sun is directly overhead!! So it provided no information at all! Unsurprisingly I got lost in the countryside! It was actually pretty cool, alone and walking along dirt paths in the midst of beautiful hills and meadows, with birds chirping and streams gurgling! I quite enjoyed it!
I ultimately stumbled upon the town of Esslingen, which is to the South East of Stuttgart. I got oriented and then made my way to the on-ramp of the highway. It was a 45 minute walk and once I reached, I set up camp. I made a sign which said Karlsruhe, which was the first major city on my route. There was a gas station on the highway between Esslingen and Karlsruhe, and I was hoping to reach it at the very least.
So there I was, standing at the side of the road with my thumb out in the air, and holding a board on my chest. It was a very strange feeling, being stared at by all and sundry, something which usually does not happen here in Europe -- most people keep their eyes straight ahead! I had some nice gesturing with drivers who were passing by. Some looked at my sign, smiled, and gestured that they were going in the other direction. I smiled back and tried to gesture a 'Thank you', mostly by giving them a thumbs-up . I really enjoyed these interactions. I was standing for an hour and a half in the hot midday sun (it was around 29 °C) before a car with three beautiful girls nearly stopped for me. But when they saw my sign, they moved on. Oh well, that would have been fun!
It turned out that the spot I had chosen was not at all ideal because most of the traffic was headed in the other direction. After a couple of hours, a German woman stopped for me and offered to take me to Stuttgart, where I could try my luck from another route. This seemed like a good plan, and I welcomed a chance to sit in a cool car for a while.
She dropped me off at the first chance she got on the exit of the highway, and I crossed over and set up camp again, hoping to get a ride to the first gas station on the highway at the very least. I was on a very high-traffic ramp, but was totally out of luck. Nobody stopped, and by 1530, after waiting for nearly five and a half hours, I was still in Stuttgart! I was tired, hungry, and not in the mood to start a journey. So I called Matthias and asked if I could spend another night at his place. He was happy to let me stay, and so back I went! It turned out to be a Good Thing , as there was a World Cup game between France and Switzerland being played in Stuttgart that day, and I got to experience the atmosphere. More on that later.
That evening, Matthias logged on to a German website (I forget the name) from where you can 'book' rides to various cities. The idea is simple: people who are driving on a particular route put the details of the ride up on the site. People who want a ride just search through the available rides and get in touch with the appropriate drivers. There is usually a fee, and I payed €20 for a ride to Köln, a journey of 380 KM, and which would take me very very close to Venlo!
So I met with the driver (Markus) the next morning at 1015 on the outskirts of Stuttgart, and off we went. That morning, there was a huge accident on the Autobahn Markus had chosen to use and traffic was backed up for nearly 30 KM! My brilliant map came to the rescue once again -- we devised an alternative route to Köln, and off we went! It was slow driving because there was unusually high traffic on the road. We rolled into my drop-off point (a gas station just North of Köln) at around 1515. Markus said that it was very nice to have me onboard and gave me his email address and said he hoped that we kept in touch. I found this a bit strange, as he barely knew English and we hardly spoke at all!
I got off at a very fancy gas station which had a Burger King! I ate a big meal, watched a bit of the Spain vs. Ukraine game, and then got back out and started asking for a ride again. After about an hour I found a Dutch man who was headed to the Dutch town Enschede. Venlo was not enroute, but he agreed to make a detour for me! Another instance of how nice people can be! He was the owner of a trucking company and was very proud of his business. He told me all the details of all the trucks and vans he owned, the drivers, their education, etc. He was also curious about India, and what I thought about the Netherlands, the quality of education etc. He was pleased with what I had to say about his country.
He dropped me off near the centre of Venlo, and I walked the through the town centre to the Central Station. Venlo is quite a picturesque town! Then it was on a train, and back to Eindhoven and home. I had started at 1015 in the morning, and reached my space box at 1830. Phew!
Impressions
I think that hitchhiking is a brilliant way to travel. It is virtually free (always a good thing!). It gets you in touch with new people. It teaches you not to be shy, to be able to communicate with complete strangers even though you may not know their language. A successful hitchhiking trip is magical for your confidence in your ability to solve problems and get out of sticky situations. It is a masterclass in learning to stay calm and patient, in dealing with people, and in learning the importance of a nice smile and an honest look into the eyes. Most importantly for me, it really drives home the reality that most of the fear and suspicion of strangers that we tend to grow up with is without much basis. Sure there will be dangerous people, and sure you may get burnt sometime, but for most part people are good and helpful, and I think that it is best to trust them and learn to tell what kind of people you cannot trust as you go along. Life becomes so much more straightforward and beautiful this way. There are hardly any worries and no anxiety or suspicion. I will always remain thankful to my hitchhiking and couchsurfing experiences for teaching me these lessons.
My stay with the Kaags
On Friday 9 June, Matthias, his roommate Nicoh, and me drove to a small Bavarian town called Neumarkt, where we would spend two nights in the home of Matthias's girlfriend Simone. Other friends of Matthias would also be joining us, though they would be living in another house. And so we had quite a large group of people. The primary interest was in an annual festival called the Alstadtfest. Nobody seems to know why this festival is celebrated, I guess they just need an excuse for a party once a year where all the people of the town can meet and make merry.
The festival comprises of rows of stalls selling food and drinks, and some live bands performing different types of music along the main shopping street of the town. That is pretty much it!
It was a strange experience for me. Being a small town, nobody was comfortable talking English. Being an unknown town, there were no other foreigners around. So I was probably the only non-German speaking person in the vicinity! That forced me to do what I do best, keep my mouth closed and my eyes open.
I enjoyed the beer and the food. In particular, the various Bavarian brews. There is one brand of beer which is manufactured and sold only in Neumarkt. It has a long story behind it and it is conceivable that any local will be able to get into a long discussion about its fine qualities. However, I did not have any such discussions because almost all of the locals were very uncomfortable with English. But it is an indication of how much they like their beer in that part of the world. One thing that I do know about this Neumarkt beer is that it is made of ingredients which are grown in very controlled environments. These ingredients are reputedly of very high quality. All I can say is that the beer tasted very good. I had quite a bit of it!
I imagine that I was a bit of a novelty in the Kaag residence. They are a very local family. Mr. Kaag has almost all of his family living on the same street as him! His wife also comes from close by I think. None of them know English. Neither of the daughters have lived away from home and Kathy (Simone's sister) has probably not had to speak English for years. As a result, it was natural for them to maintain a little distance initially.
But even so, they are really fantastic people. They tried to be as nice to me as they could. Always offering me things to eat and drink, trying to make me feel at home. A smile was never far away, and that made me feel a whole lot more comfortable. It is amazing what a difference a smile can make in situations like these. The father tried to tell me about the region, the history, the construction of their beautiful house etc., but the language barrier was too great to bridge. Simone was more comfortable as she has met a few foreigners through Matthias before (through couchsurfing.com ). But Kathy did not speak to me for the first day and a half simply because she did not know how to deal with a total stranger like me! In the middle of all this, I did not feel the least bit uncomfortable. It was awkward at times when someone would rattle off entire sentences to me in German, and then realize that I don't know the language. But apart from that, it was pretty nice to just observe the people, their mannerisms, and get a feel for the place.
On Saturday afternoon all of us went to the local recreation center. It is a beautiful facility with two swimming pools, a wonderful large water slide, large lawns for the sunbathers, a court for beach volleyball, places to play football, etc. I was amazed at the facilities that are available in even the smallest towns. I had a nice time playing volleyball, football, sliding up and down the water slide, and catching glimpses of all the girls sunbathing in their bikinis in the bright afternoon sun!
The most special moment for me was the walk back to the Kaag residence from the Alstadtfest on Saturday night. It was just Matthias, Simone, Kathy, and me, and that was when we really warmed to each other. They spoke English all the way through, and we really laughed and joked all along. We exchanged various stories, but the most interesting one was this: Simone and Kathy speak their own little language with each other which Matthias calls 'Kaagish'. It is basically German but spoken with like a baby would speak it. My sister and I do the exact same thing (with English!), and once again it goes to show that many things remain the same no matter where in the world you are! It was an experience similar to the one I had in Köln when I was a Wagonengel. In all the mirth and chatter, I felt completely at home and was totally immersed in the moment. It is moments like these, feeling totally at home in the midst of people who are otherwise total strangers, which I will always remember and treasure. They are what, for me, makes traveling priceless.
One thing which I find very cool is the attitude toward romantic relationships in this part of the world. Matthias and Simone slept together in her parents house from the very beginning of their relationship. There was no awkwardness whatsoever and they were intimate right in front of her parents. This is quite unheard of in India where public physical intimacy beyond holding hands is generally frowned upon, even among married couples! I must say that I much prefer this European attitude where people do what they feel like doing and nobody minds it. I really can't understand the Indian hang-ups anymore. I mean, on the one hand when couples (especially young ones) feel and get intimate, people around them apparently get antagonized and offended. As a result, the couples tend to feel awkward and start inhibiting themselves. There is tension created on both sides. And for what? Who gains? And how much is lost as a result? As I said, I don't understand it at all.
Here is a picture of part of the 'gang' on the front garden of the Kaag residence:
Stuttgart and the World Cup fever
Stuttgart is a truly beautiful city. It has loads of greenery, a huge park right in the center with lovely fountains and beautiful buildings (like the Opera house above) around it. It has a wonderful shopping street, many wonderful pubs and restaurants, and, reputedly, a very nice night life too. It is big but not too big. It really is just perfect. Walking around the city streets, eating at the open air cafes, and absorbing the atmosphere made me fall in love with it! And the public transport is wonderful as well, but that is common in most cities in Western Europe.
On my first morning in the city, I went for a walk in the park. And the first thing I saw were some (hott!) girls sunbathing topless! And people were walking by them as if there was nothing special about it. Later on, Matthias told me that there was really nothing special about it and it was quite common in most of the big German cities. With all the superb beer, and the topless girls, I quite like Germany ;) By the end of my stay in Stuttgart, I managed to get used to these sunbathers. I guess after a while the novelty just wears off and one accepts it as just another difference in cultures. But it was pretty cool nonetheless!
As I mentioned earlier, I was in Stuttgart the day the World Cup game between France and Switzerland was played there. The atmosphere was phenomenal. There were legions of Swiss and French fans dressed in Red and Blue respectively swarming all over the streets! There was a lot of banter between them and they made their fair share of noise. I was watching them with a detached curiosity, as were most of the locals. These people really do go crazy over football!
Stuttgart, being a host city of the World Cup, has huge screenings of all the World Cup manches in what is called the Schlossplatz, or the Palace square. It is a really beautiful setting to watch a football match -- surrounded by a beautiful palace, a nice castle, a fountain, etc. !
The fans also turned out in large numbers. Particularly the Italian fans for the Italy vs. Ghana game, and the Croatian fans for the Brazil vs. Croatia game. The Italians were particularly vociferous and colorful, as you may well imagine if you know anything about Italy!
Thats all folks
And that is my trip! It has been quite eventful and I really had a great time. I think it is the best trip that I have made in Europe. Now that my time here is almost at an end, I don't think I will have any more adventures to write about. But I may just write one more article summarizing my feelings about my time here. Till then, Enjoy!


